Dear Oliver,
You continue to be a sweet, happy, delightful boy. We love you so much, it's kind of ridiculous. Sometimes I worry that I'm too obsessed with you! You are practically perfect in every way and are such an easy child.
You are such a great eater. I can't even believe the difference between you and your brother in this aspect. We can seriously put a food on your plate that you've never tried or even seen before and you will just pop it in your mouth like it ain't no thang. You are very adventurous and will eat pretty much anything. This isn't to say that you eat a lot but at least you're willing to try things. You eat with gusto for the first minute or two that we put food in front of you, but your excitement usually wears off pretty quickly. And once you decide that you're done, you're done. There's nothing I can do to get you to eat any more. So I always try to put the healthiest, protein-filled foods in front of you first so that you'll fill up on those. I'd say your favorite foods are fruits and veggies. You'll almost always eat those without fail.
Putting you to bed and down for your naps is the cutest thing ever. You grasp 3 or 4 burp cloths tightly to your chest and then we carry you around the house while you say night night (or nigh-nigh) to everything. You wave your chubby little hand at everything while you yell NIGH-NIGH at the top of your lungs with a big grin on your face. You love to sleep and are awesome at it. You take one nap, usually around 12:30. You sleep for about an hour and a half, sometimes two, and on a rare occasion, even three hours. When we put you to bed at night (around 7:30), you usually talk or sing to yourself for a few minutes before falling asleep. It's really nice because you and Eli have the same sleep schedule. You both go down at 7:30 p.m.and wake up between 7:00-7:30 a.m.
You have made a lot of improvements with your talking this past month. Yay! You can say "mommy," "daddy," "basketball," "burp cloth," "more," "thank you," and a few more that I can't think of right now. The biggest improvement is that when we tell you to repeat a word, it sounds a lot more like that word than it used to. It will usually have the right amount of syllables at least!
You and Eli get along pretty well for the most part but have the typical sibling fights (usually over toys). Sometimes, they get pretty ridiculous and you'll fight over the other brother sitting too close to you or talking the wrong way, etc. It's been hard having you two so close together in age, but I'm so glad we did it like that. I hope that you're best friends forever. It occurred to me a few months ago that your missions very well may overlap and you two won't see each other for 4 years! That can't happen! We'll have to hold you back for a few months so that you can at least spend a week or two with Eli before you leave.
You're not doing much better about going to nursery than you were last month. Just walking into the nursery room causes deep sobs to escape your chest. You grab my legs and bury your head in them so that you don't have to even look at the toys and the other kids. I usually stay with you for a minute or two, but as soon as you're not looking, I leave. I'm kind of hard core about it but I really want you to learn to deal with it on your own. I don't want to coddle you and go to nursery with you for the next year just because you're acting like a cry baby. Sorry! You'll learn to like it. I think it's in both of our best interests to leave.
Have I ever written about how much you love to pray? Every time we tell you boys that we're going to say a prayer, you drop everything you're doing to fold your arms and bow your head. You love to "repeat" back the words of the prayer. It is so funny because you can barely talk but you totally think you know what you're saying. You say it with so much confidence. It's so much fun to watch.
Oliver, you have such a fun personality. You love to play, be chased, do silly things, and sing. You love wrestling with your dad more than anything and shriek at the top of your lungs when he throws you around. I love your relationship with your daddy. You love to snuggle with him and plant big kisses right on his mouth. We love you so much and are so happy you're ours!
Love and kisses,
Mama
20 Month Stats:
Weight: 27.8 lbs (64th percentile)
Height: 33 1/4 in (52nd percentile)
Head Circumference: 19 in (52nd percentile)